Stop working so hard. Once you understand subjective reality, you will understand that you are the only consciousness, as in a lucid dream. You do not have to work hard to have what you want. Simply do what you want and enjoy what you want to enjoy. This is how you enjoy the flow of abundance.
What is Subjective Reality?
Subjective reality is a point of view that claims that you are the one consciousness and that everyone and everything in your "life" is a projection of your consciousness. Tony Robbins has said that "nothing has any meaning but the meaning that you give it" for this reason. Steve Pavlina clarifies, "You are the only thinker in this Universe."
The proponents of objective reality have trouble explaining the Law of Attraction and the "good luck" that some people have and the "bad luck" that others have. A subjective reality perspective makes it so simple – these are characters you are exploring, and situations you have created.
Ho'oponopono insists that you take complete responsibility for all conflict, all disease and everything in your life and your awareness. This only makes sense from a subjective reality perspective. And, once you do this, you are able to heal the "other people" in your life.
Along these lines, it makes no sense to feel anger or fear of anyone else because they are only characters you have created to experience love or conflict, joy or distress, boredom or excuse, and so forth. You are your Avatar. You are the character in your own video game. When you want to go into a different area, you simply go there.
How Does the Law of Attraction Fit with Subjective Reality?
Once we accept Subject Reality, and the idea that we are the sole consciousness responsible for everything in our lives, it is obvious that as soon as we want to change this game, we only have to intend it and see that it is done.
In a video game, or a lucid dream, the changes are almost instantaneous. In the 3rd dimension physical reality, things are denser and change takes a little longer. The real slowdown is when we are confused by our Egoic mind's belief in objective reality and by some rules we learned as a child.
Let all the rules go. Prepare for the 4th dimension by enjoying the game that you created. And, if you are not currently enjoying it, please, change it to something you would like better.